The Stay At Home Wife And The Implications...Blog Visitor Narrative.

The depression of staying at home is not what
you bargained for right?..and then your
parents will not stop demanding and asking
for things beyond your means...just like blog
visitor mamie complained of in the ranting
post,some parents can break a home with
their selfish demands!...what do you do?

SDK blog visitor says....

''I am an only child. I am from delta state
and my hubby yoruba. I come from a part of
the country where it is Believed it is the
responsibility of the children to take care of
Their parents Whereas he is from a part of
the country where parents work hard to leave
inheritance For their childrens children.

I am a stay at home mum (not by choice.)
Had to relocate to another part of the country
where my husbands talent is more
appreciated.While my husband is thriving in
this place (believe me I am happy for him /
us)
I am wasting away at home.

My temper is melancholy so you can just
imagine how unstable and depressed I can
be. My husband sends money to my parents
weekly for feeding and he never misses the to
opportunity to rub it in Whenever we quarrel,
even though he was the one that told my dad
to stop working.

My parents do not help matters Because They
Are always asking for extra money even
though what they are given should be
enough. I use to cater for them until I got
married. The state where I reside now is a
civil servant state so getting a job is not easy.
I told my husband I want to go into a
Particular business and he put his weight
behind it and started planning for the
business in a big way.

The business is Capable
of gulping close to N2million (it is a fast
moving consumer products). I was not
planning on spending huge amount because
my hubby will never give me that to amount
to set up a business.
My trouble is He Has totally edged me out.

I do not even have a say in the planning
process. My parents are getting very old and I
need to be able to gather some money to put
aside to help out. My husband is never
Concerned When my parents fall sick and I do
not blame him Because his parents never ever
ask him for money.

I do not have any money to start a business
and my husband will not give me except he
takes over the business completely. Most of
the time I am suicidal. Just last night He Said
some nasty hurtful things about my
parents. He can be very mean with his
Utterances. I need advice please''.

culled from SDK blog