How to Deal with Manipulative Parents

People hate to admit but many of us have
suffered a manipulation either directly or
heard about it from a close family.
Manipulative friends are the worst parents
one will ever have.

So since our relationship and bond between
our parents is born of fate rather than
choice, how do we go about dealing with
manipulation? How do we deal with anger and
respect issues in dealing with the most
sensitive people in our lives when they treat
us badly.
4 ways to deal with emotionally manipulative
parents

1. Killing with Kindness

This method of copping with emotional
manipulation it's manipulation itself, though
in a good way. It has been used by scored of
intelligent kids to escape violent parents.
Be overly kind, obedient and supportive. The
more they vent out negativities directly or
indirectly, let that be a motivation to your
mind to remain calm, untouched and meek.
Be very very nice to an extent they won't be
able to find fault in you no matter how they
try. If not for parents with personality/
psychological issues, this works best and
harmless.

2. Looking Forward.

Sometimes our parents cannot be that bad as
we think they are. Just that our minds are too
inclined to the family we have right now.
Stop thinking about living with your family
after you turn 18.
Think about a better future and look forward
to it. Live everyday with the hope that
tomorrow will definitely be better than today.
And if you believe it and work your best in
school and personal talent, 18 years will be a
good future.
Manipulation is the problem of who does it.
You're young and don't need to force things
when they won't happen. Just focus focus
focus on the right thing and a happier youth
life awaits you.

3. After Night Comes the Day

Your parents might be frustrated and stressed
out in their own. Try to observe why and
when they use to be insecured. If it's about
your outing, outfit, grades or friends, make
sure you do exactly what they want.
Some parents attach their happiness to kids
behaviour. When you don't act right with
their orders, they become stressed and will
try to use every means to get your behaviour
in control.

4. Counselling.

Visit a counselor once in a while to have a
heart to heart talk. You might also demand
that the counselor should visit your parents.
They also need someone to talk with. They
want to pour out their hearts to an adult like
them. just don't allow them to know that
you're the invitee.